She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do.
If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. Does he have a faith similarly conversion-focused as I could see that being a challenge.
All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness.