We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months.
Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. He came to bed at 1: I don't know if I can make this work.
As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit.
You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun.
That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments.