Sometimes the plain old lovemaking sessions can get really boring, and that is exactly where we would love to step in!
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Given the high divorce rate in this particular specialty, it might have helped him if there were people in the environment who questioned his behavior or at the very least, registered some sort of disapproval. As your future self, I say this with the utmost respect and admiration: Two peas in a pod.
Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time.