My family says I should leave him….
And on my part, I felt I needed to go out and live harder, party more, be more social, etc. We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun.
Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair.
We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his sorority sluts, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it.
In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems.