I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate.
It is a tradeoff at best.
This means that she will probably be dating others at the same time as you.
Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time.
I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage.
He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with.
Our communication is mostly via texts, but he keeps me in the loop at work, and I do the same. My new book is called, "Looking For: If he doesn't have time to pursue a relationship, and a medical resident usually doesn't, he shouldn't have done that.
I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all.
I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks.